Empowering Women to Reclaim Their Lives After Narcissistic Relationships
You don’t have to do this alone.
You’ve given everything to someone who only took.
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You’ve questioned your worth, your instincts, even your reality.
Now, you’re here—searching for a way forward.
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I see you.
I’ve been where you are.
And I can help.
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Together, we will:
Heal from emotional wounds and rebuild your self-worth.
Break free from guilt, recognize red flags, and cut trauma bonds.
Step into financial independence and communicate with confidence.
Rebuild your social connections and reclaim your identity.
This is your time.
Your life.
Your fresh start.
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A Narcissist is someone who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance and is overly concerned with their own needs, not yours.
Autonomy
Autonomy: "the quality of state of being self-governing, especially the right of self government."
In other words...
YOU make the rules for you,
YOU set the boundaries that are healthy for you, and you enforce them,
YOU believe in yourself and live a fulfilling life, for YOU!
Want emotional stability?
Together we can transform your pain into power and find lasting strength and safety.
Tired of doubting yourself?
I will teach you tangible methods to evaluate your thoughts and live with confidence.
Need help setting goals and decision making?
Let's reshape your hesitation into actionable steps, helping you push forward toward a fulfilling future.
Ready for a fresh focus?
It's time for a personal reinvention with the focus on you: emotional health, well-being, communication, and self-care.
What is Autonomy Coaching?
"So, what does an autonomy coach do?"
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I guide and support women through personal reinvention by focusing on identity, confidence, communication, and self-care.
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First, we address stabilizing your thoughts and emotions. We analyze your current daily routines and implement small changes that have high impact, providing safety and security.
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Then, we explore your values, interests, and strengths to help you to better understand and appreciate your unique qualities and interests. This builds self-awareness and confidence.
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Next, we concentrate on strengthening social connections and community involvement. (Don't worry, my fellow introverts, I have a plan for you, too.) Social engagement and relationships are crucial for connecting you with your personal joy and purpose.
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Finally, we turn our attention to pursuing personal goals and aspirations, fostering a sense of accomplishment and purpose. This system of self-exploration and action planning is tried and true.
Happiness is the best revenge!
"After a very lengthy marriage to a narcissist, I found myself alone and starting over without any idea of how to to begin. Gretchen's guidance and counsel with her great ideas to help me move on with my career and new lifestyle have been invaluable to me. Gretchen's an amazing listener and motivator, which was exactly what I needed to stay focused to get healthy and make the most of the life ahead of me. I am still working with her to reach my next life goals and to create the lifestyle I want and deserve. Let her work with you too!"
Jean K.